Blog Reader writes open lettter to Stella Damasus

Dear Stella Aboderin,

 

I can only hope when you finish reading this, you will take time to reflect on this and not rush to defend yourself.

 

First,I hope you understand that not every thing that we want in life we must get not because we are weak but because of the negative effects on the society generally.

 

I read your interview and i was surprised to read somethings you said because you were once married to late Jaiye and also a mother of two beautiful girls, i believe that as close as you were to your late husband,there were times you fought and argue??? if so how will you feel as a WIFE for another woman to have something with your husband causing scandals that your children will grow to read and probably pay for in future????

Stella, Ive followed and love you a long time because you are beautiful and a talented actress but tell me, who is a celeb? A celeb in my definition is not only someone who can afford to buy Brazilian hair ,its someone who  the younger generation can emulate ,who can mentor ,someone with a heart ,now how do you sleep at night knowing that small boy (Daniels son )is separated from his mum because of you......yes i agree you did not SNATCH OR STEAL but you did not give the couple that time to HEAL.

Stella you also said you were popular at a very young age ,you have money to throw around ,but i remembered those years ago when Jaiye died and it was reported you had a meager account balance and his family was treating you bad,who was lying????you or the papers??

Yes its your life but you did not stop to check the repercussion of your action on your children and the society generally,your friends that are telling you its a wise step, stop to think that can they confide in you about the difficulties they are experiencing in their relationship??Are they not scared their men might just be the next victim because Stella is 36 and did not give a damn what anyone think??? Also what precedence are you laying down for your girls????  I am sure Toni Payne could have had chain of relationships but chose to stay scandal free after 9ice moved on because shes a MOTHER.

You are beautiful and could find a single man or a widower to marry not another woman's husband,even if Daniel and his wife are killing each other daily in their home you are not meant to be the knife Satan will use to cut the tie .

Stop the decay in our society NOW!!!

Stay Blessed,

Kemi Ajisafe

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